YOUnique is a book written for you. It took me eleven years to write this, as everything written in it comes from experience. I have been in sales and marketing for many year.s I also started a few businesses from manufacturing to retailing, from direct selling to food and hospitality. With all these experiences, it has been quite a roller coaster ride.
As Chinkee Tan would always say at the beginning of his talks, “Experience is not the best teacher, but other people’s experiences.” You don’t have to go through the failures of successful people if you listen to their advice. Your learning curve will be shortened.
Debtermined is a behavioral finance book. What’s the difference? Personal finance books teach us the ‘hows’ and the ‘whats’ of finance. Behavioral finance teaches us the ‘whys.’ Simply put, it will show us why we do what we do, and how we can change our behavior so that we do what we had intended to do. Personal Finance is about knowledge, and behavioral finance is about (you guessed it) behaviour.
Don’t just read this book; study it. Make it your book by personalizing and interacting with it. Take down notes, mark down and underline the lessons that come to life. The books that have helped me the most were those that I interacted with and reflected on.
After reading this book, I hope you will finally discover something more valuable than a lost ring, and you don’t have to wait for six decades or spend your whole life trying to look for it.
Through this book, you can discover who you are and how you are wired by God. Discovering who you are is a journey, a journey that can start here. Let me be your guide in this adventure of self-discovery.
This is just the starting point. We are all works in progress. Discovering one’s self is a lifetime journey. Just like what leadership guru, John Maxwell, said in one of his books, Your Road Map for Success — “Success is a journey, not a destination.” To paraphrase, “Self-discovery is a journey, not a destination.” Your journey starts here.
YOUniquely In Love
If there is one thing I want readers to take away from this book, it’s the word WILLINGNESS. Love is not just an emotion, but a decision. Love is not just about passion, but your devotion. Loving your partner despite your differences makes the relationship wonderful.
That’s why Kat and I wrote YOUniquely In Love “Love Others The Way They Want To Be Loved” to show the power of the four personality types in relationships.
Our deepest desire, as the tagline goes, is for you to be able to love your partner the way they want to be loved.